The 6 Archetypes of Chasing Quiz
You don’t chase because you want him. You chase because something in you learned love has to be earned, managed, or held together.
This 2-minute quiz reveals how chasing is actually showing up for you - so you can stop repeating the same patterns in love and start becoming the woman who is naturally chosen.
what are THE 6 ARCHETYPES OF CHASING™?
Chasing isn’t one behavior. It has many faces - and most women don’t realize which one they’re living in.
You might recognize yourself in one… or a few.
Different expressions.
Same root: fear of not being chosen.
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You perform, perfect, or edit yourself to be “enough” for love.
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You pour, give, and overextend - hoping it will make you irreplaceable.
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You pull back, act unbothered, or play it cool to feel powerful.
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You cling, overthink, or need reassurance to feel safe in love.
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You fall for potential, fantasy, or who he could be instead of who he is.
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You shrink, silence your needs, or disappear to avoid being abandoned.
Why You Chase
Most women try to “stop chasing” by changing their actions.
But chasing doesn’t live in behavior. It lives in identity, safety, and self-worth.
This isn’t about blaming yourself.
And it’s not about blaming men.
It’s about seeing the pattern clearly, without judgment, so you can stop living it unconsciously.
When you understand how you chase, you no longer need to:
Overperform for love
Overgive to feel secure
Hide your needs
Live in fantasy
Or abandon yourself to be chosen
You get to come back to yourself.
The Dream Girl doesn’t chase love.
She becomes so rooted in herself that love meets her there.
This quiz is your first step back to that version of you.